Reads From Around the Web

by Ginger on April 22, 2012

in Blogging & Social Media

One of the downsides of this week being so crazy was that I barely got to absorb much out there in internet land. I hate when that happens, not least because I hate seeing my reader with numbers in the triple digits. But also because it means that this week’s RFATW is going to be shorter than usual. At least they’ll be good though!

Over at Kludgy Mom, an honest look at herself as a parent had Gigi giving us What I Learned From Caine’s Arcade. If you haven’t seen Caine’s Arcade, you really should, it’s an amazing heart lifting thing. But are we all the kind of parents that will support our own kid’s arcades?  It’s worth taking an honest look at within ourselves as moms and dads.

Over at The Reedster Speaks, we have my favorite (humorous, I swear!) entry in the mommy wars brouhaha that exploded recently with The Mommy Wars Hunger Games. What district are you in? And just remember, none of us really win when we fight these hunger games.

And finally, over at Jezebel (I can’t believe I’m linking to Jezebel again…), How I Went From a Heartless Bitch To A Sappy Crybaby.  Because there’s nothing like having a kid to make you into the biggest crybaby around.

Enjoy, and as always share something awesome in the comments!

 

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The Beauty of Sleep

by Ginger on April 20, 2012

in I'm a Disaster

Last night, I got the most incredible night of sleep I’ve had in a long time. I went to bed early, and I slept alllllllll night long, and when I woke up this morning my first thought was:

“oh, wow, I forgot how this feels.”

It’s been so long since I’ve woken up feeling rested that I really had forgotten what it feels like. I didn’t need toothpicks to prop my eyelids open. I didn’t struggle to stay awake and I didn’t drag myself, eyes mostly closed, to the shower. I didn’t “rest” while leaning against the shower wall. It was amazing. You mean…you mean, this is how it’s supposed to feel?

After the crazy week I’ve had, I’m not surprised I finally crashed. I had 8 appointments with various doctors, dentists, Jockey shoppers, and other folks that necessitated lots of car time, lots of down-to-the-minute scheduling and tactical planning (having one car sucks at times). The kid has been super defiant, we’ve had a lot of financial stress (eff you taxes!), and work has been insane. So it’s not a huge shocker that Thursday night, when I didn’t have anything pressing on my plate, my body and brain finally went “uh, yeah. Peace out, we’re done.”

But it is a good reminder that, hey, I should do that more often (“that” being get a decent nights sleep). I’m really bad about staying up late–I tend to stay up until 12:00-12:30 each night, even though I (should) get up at 6:30–and it usually takes me a while to fall asleep. I also have a tendency lately to wake up multiple times a night, which means, basically, that I’m not getting that great of sleep most nights. And not sleeping well just makes EVERYTHING harder: anxiety, stress, dealing with a toddler, dealing with…well, dealing with anything, really. So this is maybe a hint that, hey, I should do this more often. You should too! We’ll all sleep together! (Wait. Err…not like THAT. You know what I mean!).

So, TL;DR version: I slept. It was awesome. I should do that some more, and so should you!

How about you? Do you stay up way too late like me? Do you feel like you get enough sleep?

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Reads From Around the Web

by Ginger on April 15, 2012

in Blogging & Social Media

We have to write a really big (for us) check to the taxman, and the kid bit me before bed, and my feet are cold. But some good reads can make things better, eh?

I’m gonna give you a double dose to make up for missing last week, but I’m gonna keep the editorializing to a minimum because WHOA is that a lot of recapping, and I’m sure you’d rather just get to the links. So let’s do it!

Let’s start with two of the best things I’ve ever read, which both happen to be from the same writer. Start with The Didactic Pirate’s Honesty, and then read the followup over at Dadcentric with And Then We Had Hamburgers. I know we throw the word brave around in blogland, but I actually find this to be deserving of the description–not because it was brave to write, but because it was brave to do, despite how hard and scary it had to have been.

Over at The Power of Moms, Your Children Want YOU!, a good reminder that your kids don’t want the perfect Pinterest version of you…they want YOU.

Over at Sometimes Sweet, On Being Vain and Weird and Silly, a good reminder to keep yourself in the photos…no matter what your vanity says.

Over at Lawyerish, Singular Sensation, talking about some of the thoughts one might have about one & done.

Over at Reading (and Chickens), Allow Me To Introduce Myself to Myself, a fantastic post about how being true to yourself opens doors to happiness you might never reach otherwise.

Over at Pacing the Panic Room, Life After Stats, a nice reminder that always thinking about “growing” your blog can lead you away from the things that actually help YOU grow your blog–and away from what you love about your blog.

Over on Scary Mommy Society, Rachel shares Saturday #286, heart tugging proof that time with your kids is short. And while I don’t prescribe to the idea that you have to cherish every moment, it is a good way to try and remind myself to not just look at these days as marathons to be “gotten through.”

Over at 649.133, Ms. Understood looks at apologizing for your kiddo–and when that might not be what you want to do. And as someone with a bit of a wild child kid, this one hit home.

A non-blogger one, but I Re-Watched Titanic So You Don’t Have To. You’re Welcome. on Jezebel cracked me the hell up.

Alright, go, read. Enjoy.

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The Next Generation

by Ginger on April 13, 2012

in Blogging & Social Media,The Kid

This one’s for the bloggers.

 

Someone get this kid his own blog!

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Blogging Is Like Any Company

by Ginger on April 12, 2012

in Blogging & Social Media

Everyone likes to talk about how blogging is like high school all over again, what with the cliques and the popular kids and the whatnot.

I’ve had my own view on that for a while, which is that blogging is like high school in that there are always classes and they’re probably never going to interact much. The senior class is gonna be removed from the freshmen class and that’s just kind of how it is, with a few rare exceptions. You may find a few clubs that mix the classes up, or you find a superstar freshman who gets bumped up to the varsity team, but in general, freshmen hang with freshmen, seniors hang with seniors. (We won’t talk about those kids who moved on to college but still came back to hang out with the sophomores…that’s just weird).

But the more I think about it, the more I *really* think that blogging is more like any company in corporate America.

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Think about it. There are millions of us little worker bees working away on our blogs. We do good work, we may even do great work, but we’re down in the trenches. Maybe every once in a while we hit something out of the park and get noticed in our performance review, but mostly, we come in and do what we do and hope that we slowly make our way up the chain. There are different branches to the company–some that overlap, some that don’t–but the basis of what we’re all doing is similar, even if our individual goals and group goals are different.

You’ve got your interns who are just learning the ropes, dipping a toe into the industry to see if they really want to play in this sand box. They may be tentative, they may be enthusiastic, but they’re so green only time will tell if they find their place in this world. Just, please, someone show them where the break room is before they get lost again.

You’ve got your entry level folks. Good, hard workers most of them, though they may make their fair share of beginner mistakes. But you can see them growing their skills and their networks and that they may make it for the long haul.

You’ve got your mid-level people. Been doing the job for a while, know the ropes. Maybe they occasionally feel a little jaded by the industry, but they come to work and put in their best (most days. Everyone has off days). The may mentor the entry level folks, and may look for mentors in the rungs above them, but they know they’ve found a good home in this place, with mostly good coworkers, and are glad to keep building on what they’ve started.

You’ve got your old timers. Some of them love keeping up with the changing industry. Some of them just wish it would go back to being the small company it was when they started. They have a lot to offer to people who pay attention, when they feel like sharing. You sometimes see them shaking their head as they walk by the interns, bemused by their shenanigans.

Then, there are the inevitable superstars. The ones who are Golden, who hit every right rung on that ladder and shoot to the top of the pack with all the money and accolades (and stresses) that come with it. You can’t be too mad about it because they are GOOD at their job, and everyone knows it.

Of course, you’re also bound to have the ones that piss you off. The jackass who ends up with the corner office and the good promotions because…well, no one really knows why. Because he’s got the right friends? Because he takes credit for work other people have done? Because he knows how to game the system? No matter–you and your coworkers all hate him, but you’re never going to convince anyone who’s in a position to change things that he’s a fraud. It happens in the best of industries.

And, like any company, you’ve got your work friends and enemies. You’ve got people you can’t stand and people you love. You’ve got groups who work well together and those that don’t. You have your loners and workaholics who eat lunch by themselves and you’ve got the party planning team who’s always putting together that Friday Fiesta! for everyone.

See? Just like a big company. Minus the cubicles.

So who am I missing in my corporate chain? And what do you think of my analogy?

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